Monday, May 12, 2014

Notes from the Tilt-A-Whirl: Wide-Eyed Wonder in God's Spoken Word


What a GREAT book. I'm already looking forward to reading it again, which hopefully I will do over the summer. I love the way this guy thinks and writes. It's hard to describe or summarize this book, so I'll just copy down some of my favorite quotes.

"Marx called religion an opiate, and all too often it is. But philosophy is an anesthetic, a shot to keep the wonder away."

"The world is beautiful but badly broken. St. Paul said that it groans, but I love it even in its groaning. I love this round stage where we act out the tragedies and the comedies of history. I love it with all of its villains and petty liars and self-righteous pompers. I love the ants and the laughter of wide-eyed children encountering their first butterfly. I love it as it is, because it is a story, and it isn't stuck in one place. It is full of conflict and darkness like every good story. And like every good story, there will be an ending. I love the world as it is, because I love what it will be."

"Einstein gave us space-time and a whole lot of bad sci-fi along with it."

"It's cold tonight, and my mind is too small to grasp the world, tired from trying."

"The apostle Paul: God made your eyes, can he not make them pink?"

"To exist in this poem is a greater gift than any finite creature can imagine. To be so insignificant and yet still be given a speaking part, to be given scenes that are my own, and my own only, scenes where the audience is limited to the Author Himself (scenes that I often flub), to have been here with my frozen nose, to have been crafted with at least as much care as a snowflake (though I'm harder to melt), and to hear and feel and see and taste and smell the heavy poetry of God, that is enough."

"We imitate God's words, but our noises are insufficient. So we doodle in the margins, children working to capture the Sistine Chapel with finger paints on a paper plate. What else can we do?"

"My father uses a blue highlighter to remind him of the good bits he reads, but it has trouble sticking to sunsets or thunderstorms or the cries of the meadowlark in the Spring. His guitar is more helpful."

"Art, like morality, consists of drawing the line somewhere." G. K. Chesterton.

"When the final collapse comes, when the ice triumphs, she at least will have no truck with grief. Let the winter come. It is the only path to spring."

"People are raped in this world, and rape is evil. Because evil exists, there must be no God. Because there is no God, no authoritative standard over creation, the badness of rape downgrades to a mere matter of societal taste. Ethnic cuisine, ethnic ethics. In God's absence rape is no longer fundamentally evil. In our country, you'll get confined to a cell (if caught and convicted), but that just means we enforce our taste, not that our taste has any real authority over anyone else. In other societies, girls have been passed around and traded like baseball cards. Is that right?"

"An atheist can tell us that he is a good person, that he has never stolen a lawn mower or murdered his wife. I believe him. What he cannot tell me is what is fundamentally wrong about lawn mower theft and wife killing. he will try, but he can't."

"Perhaps you feel a more serious burden. Looking out of your eyes, the world could easily be improved. Fewer people could die. Death could be banished. Hunger slaked. Thirst quenched. Evil, that which displeases God, should be gone. So it should. But how? When? What is it that you are assessing? Would Pride and Prejudice be improved by throwing away every page prior to the resolution, by erasing every character flaw, every misunderstanding and dispute?"

"It is easy to be numb to the world's marvels when you've missed lunch and the light is still red."

"Bruises heal, but stories are forever."

"In a world with evil, god is either not all powerful or He is not all good. Are these the only options? Or He is Shakespeare, Rembrandt, Botticelli, Dostoevsky, Van Gogh (with both ears), Michelangelo, Vivaldi, Robert Johnson, N.C. Wyeth, and Gary Larson rolled into one."

"Do you dislike your role in the story, your place in the shadow? What complaints do we have that the hobbits could not have heaved at Tolkien?"

"Act, and act well until you reach your final scene."

"Christianity is no longer about changing the world. Christianity is no longer about facing the darkness and walking into shadow with souls full of light. We don't see evil as a thing to be conquered, we don't see life as a story with any kind of arc. We don't want our God to be the God of falcons and mole rats and skunk justice."

"Do not resent your place in the story. Do not imagine yourself elsewhere. Do not close your eyes and picture a world without thorns, without shadows, without hawks. Change this world. use your body like a tool meant to be used up, discarded, and replaced. Better every life you touch. We will reach the final chapter. When we have eyes that can stare into the sun, eyes that only squint for the Shekinah, then we will see laughing children pulling cobras by their tails, and hawks and rabbits playing tag."

"The Problem Part Two: The world is rated R, and no one is checking IDs. Do not try to make it G by imagining the shadows away. Do not try to hide your children from the world forever, but do not pretend there is no danger. Train them. Give them sharp eyes and bellies full of laughter. Make them dangerous. Make them yeast, and they've grown, they will pollute the shadows."

"Stories don't end at death."

Can't wait to read it again. One of the few books that I think everyone should read.

Questioning Evangelism


Questioning Evangelism, what a good title. A good title for a good book. Thankfully this title doesn't refer to questioning whether we should engage in evangelism, rather it discusses how to thoughtfully use questions to aid in evangelism. I love this concept, so I thought I would record a few quotes from the book that I want to remember.

"We should be more engaging and less confrontational in our sharing of the Good News."

Guidelines from "How to Win Friends and Influence People":
1. Don't criticize, condemn, or complain.
2. Give honest, sincere appreciation.
3. Arouse int he other person an eager want.
4. Become genuinely interested in other people.
5. Smile.
6. Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
7. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
8. Talk in terms of the other person's interests.
9. Make the other person feel important, and do it sincerely.

"The church's calling, in addition to proclaiming the Gospel, feeding the poor, building up families and encouraging the down-trodden, must also include intentional efforts to build plausibility structures." (The church must work to answer the question of "why should I believe that or even consider it?")

"Only the cross takes seriously both God's holiness and our sinfulness."

Four factors of Belief in the Bible:
1. Plausibility (Is there a chance the Bible could be true?)
2. Messiness (Book written to apply to human messiness in every time and place.)
3. Reality (history, literary criticism, etc. http://www.str.org/)
4. Need (The Bible speaks to our core needs.)

"Some people ask us for the reason for the hope that is in us only after we've asked them a question and listened carefully to their answer."

"What we believe could be called Mere Christianity, the kinds of things on which the Christian church has agreed for centuries. We believe that there is a God and that He's made Himself known to us so we can have a personal relationship with Him, one that would help us in this life and one that would last forever in heaven. We also realize that we've all fallen short of any decent standard of goodness. In other words, we've all got some sin in us that's messed up a lot of things - friendships, consciences, relationship with God, things like that. We believe that Jesus is the answer for our problems. He not only taught us lessons on how to live so we don't have these problems, but He also died on the cross to take away the penalty that we deserved for the problems we've created. Each of us has come to the point where we follow Him every day of our lives."

This book also contains lots of sample conversations demonstrating how and when good questions can be asked. I would do well to practice asking good questions as this book suggests.

Wednesday, April 9, 2014

Bible Study Methods: Ephesians 2


Ephesians 2:1-22

Step 1: Survey the Big Picture
Author: "Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God"

Recipient: "saints who are in Ephesus, and are faithful in Christ Jesus." Predominantly meant for Gentile believers.

Historical Context: ~60 AD, possibly written from a prison in Rome.

Before and After:
Chapter 1 is all about the Spiritual blessings that we have through Jesus. God chose us and adopted us into His family. He redeemed us and forgave us through the blood of Jesus. We have received a spiritual inheritance including the Holy Spirit.

Chapter 3 is about how the Gospel has been revealed to not just the Jews but also the Gentiles. All are members of one body. Paul ends this chapter by praying that the believers would be spiritually strengthened by understanding the love of Jesus.

Step 2: Explore the Passage
This passage is basically Paul explaining the Gospel through telling the story of the Gentiles. He does this by describing their condition prior to redemption, the process through which they were redeemed, and their condition now as Christians. He goes through these steps twice: once in verses 1-10 and once in verses 11-22.

Condition prior to redemption:
"dead in the trespasses and sins"
"following the course of this world"
"following the prince of the power of the air" (following Satan)
"carrying out the desires of the body"
"like the rest of mankind"
"separated from Christ"
"having no hope and without God"

Process of redemption:
"God, being rich in mercy because of the great love with which He loved us."
"made us alive in Christ"
"by grace you have been saved"
"raised us up with him and seated us in the heavenly places"
"by grace you have been saved through faith; it is a gift of God"
"not as a result of works"
"He himself is our peace"
"reconcile us both to God in one body through the cross"

Condition as Christians:
"alive together with Christ"
"brought near to the blood of Christ"
"through Him we have access in one Spirit to the Father"
"no longer strangers and aliens"
"fellow citizens"
"members of the household of God"

Step 3: Discover the Big Idea
Summary about God:
God is rich in love and grace, so He took the steps to bring sinful humanity into a right relationship with Himself.

Summary about people:
We were dead to sin and living only for ourselves, but through Christ we can become members of God's household.

Summary about the Gospel:
We were sinful and undeserving of grace, but God loves us so much that he offers redemption and adoption through the blood of Jesus.

Step 4: Respond to Christ
Application:
I'd like to spend time each day consciously reminding myself of the Gospel and the points that Paul discussed. I was dead to sin, God did everything to save me, and now I'm living in His family. I'd like to think about this more often and preach it to myself daily. I'd also like to continue using this study method as I read the Bible and seek to learn from it.

Wednesday, April 2, 2014

People Skills

"I have people skills, I am good at dealing with people. Can't you understand that!"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RAY27NU1Jog

At the start of this year I was tasked with training our student leaders on the interpersonal side of ministry. I recently stumbled across my notebook with these notes in it, and since it was falling apart I decided to write them here on the off chance that I'll want to refer to them later.

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Intro:
One of our goals this year is to really improve as a movement in the area of interpersonal skills. What does this mean? How to relate well to others. How to make a good first impression. How to build positive relationships. How to build an attractive and engaging community. I'm super excited, but first let's pray for a couple minutes.

Ok, here's what I'm going to be covering today (as a community and as individuals):
I.   Be Attractive
II.  Be Positive
III. Be God-honoring

But first, it's important to ask why? When I first heard that we would be working on this area I struggled to understand how that was Biblical. My first thought was "Did Jesus care about being attractive? Did He appeal to the cool people of His day?" Honest, probably not. I don't think Jesus was cool or attractive in the ways we normally use those words. So why should we strive to improve in these areas?

Here's what I think. Let's consider 1 Corinthians 9:19-23:
"For though I am free from all, I have made myself a servant to all, that I might win more of them. To the Jews I became as a Jew, in order to win Jews. To those under the law I became as one under the law (though not being myself under the law) that I might win those under the law. To those outside the law I became as one outside the law (not being outside the law of God but under the law of Christ) that I might win those outside the law. To the weak I became weak, that I might win the weak. I have become all things to all people, that by all means I might save some. I do it all for the sake of the gospel, that I may share with them in its blessings."
Paul is willing to change the way he lives for the sake of winning people to the Gospel. Now, probably Paul isn't talking about social things like we are, but I think the principle applies. In fact, I think we apply this principle all the time. Many of us have spent time in other cultures, and we change how we act and what we wear in order to have an effective ministry. When I was in Sudan I only wore dress clothes and I didn't eat pork. When we're on campus, I think we should practice good communication skills and avoid sloppy clothes. Anybody have any questions about this? Hopefully we're all on the same page.

I. Be Attractive
How do we as a movement and as individuals do this? I'd like to briefly talk about two things we can all work on.

First, present yourself well; sell yourself. As a TA, one of the best pieces of advice I received was to dress up the first week. This communicated to the students that I was an authority, a professional, and a teacher. Now, none of these things were spoken, but the way that I presented myself, especially early on, had a huge impact in how I was viewed for the rest of the semester. We can do this by managing our appearance and also by communicating well. Let's consider the following video clip. For those of you who haven't seen the movie, Will Smith has been trying to get this job for months. He is down on his luck, and spent the previous night in jail, barely making it to the interview in time. Watch how he interacts with those interviewing him.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ep-ieEG06qg

What did he do to make himself attractive?
-humor
-confidence
-"this is what I have to offer"
-smile
-eye contact
-posture

We need to enter into students' lives in a way that makes them feel comfortable. We can be confident that we have something great to offer, because we do.

Second, focus on others. I can't overstate how important this is. Work hard, strive for common interests. If needed, make yourself interested in the interests of others. Embrace curiosity and ask good questions. Not only is this fun, but people love this. People love talking about themselves, so show some interest in them.

Let's practice this for the next five minutes. Find someone close to you and ask them what they are interested in. Once you hear from them, practice asking good questions about whatever subject they like, even if you aren't particularly interested in it yourself.

Great, how was that for everyone? Actually pretty fun, right? Keep practicing that, as often as possible. People love people that ask good questions and listen well. Also, people like people that like themselves! This may seem obvious, but let me repeat that, "people like people that like themselves." Do this for me real quick, make a mental list of your 5 most-liked people. Ok, now that you have that list, how many of them don't like you? Probably none. In fact, when most people say "I really like Bob, he's great" what I really think they are saying is "Bob really likes me, he thinks I'm great."

So how do we make ourselves socially attractive? Here's the takeaway: Be confident and show interest in others. Decide to like them, and they will probably like you. Listen well, and practice not being the center of attention. Ultimately, people should leave our meetings thinking "These people would really like me if they got the chance to know me." That's an attractive community.

II. Be Positive
Here's a saying I want us all to memorize, "Be positive and the world gets better."
What do I mean by positive? Mainly two things: compliments and saying "yes."

Let's assume the best in people. Let's practice affirmation. When you notice something nice, don't be too shy to say it. Right now, let's practice this for 5 minutes. Turn back to your partner. Now, before you say anything, take 2 minutes to think about what you like best about that person, and then tell them. Those of you receiving the compliments, just smile and say thanks.

Great, I love that, just look at everyone smiling. How can you not like someone that likes you? Now, I want to be clear, I'm not suggesting that we just butter people up. But think about it, you didn't even need to be dishonest. You guys said things that you genuinely felt, there was no need to make things up. All I'm suggesting is that we choose to focus on the good things in people and take the time to communicate them.

Also, let's practice saying "yes". How many of you have seen the move Yes Man? I love this movie, it changed my life. Here's what I learned from that movie: We often need to work hard and deliberately make ourselves say yes in order to make life memorable. What does this look like?
- Stay up late
- Do crazy things just to do them
   (Examples from my life: Fall getaway shorts day and sleeping outside. Homeless week. Ragbrai, etc.)
- Get lost
- Sleep outside
- Swim!
   (Whenever there is water swim. Me? Pacific ocean in 40 degrees, lake in 35 degrees, Nile River!)

Choose to make life memorable.

III. Be God-honoring
Finally, be God-honoring in how we interact with people. What does the Bible say about our interactions with others? Here's a few verses:

Philippians 2:14
"Do all things without grumbling or questioning."
Ephesians 4:29
"Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear."
1 Thessalonians 5:18
"Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you."

Notice the absolutes. No grumbling. No corrupting talk. Give thanks in all things.

Do we live this way? Why don't we take these verses seriously? These verses are basically saying that to be negative is to be sinful. Do you believe this? Do I believe this?

We don't have time to turn there, but consider James 3:3-12. These verses talk about the power of words. Here's what I think these verses should mean to us: "What we say has the power to kill or movement or build it up."

Conclusion:
Here's what I'm trying to say:
1) Like people and they will like you back.
2) Be positive, and the world gets better.
3) Say yes.
4) Only say nice things.
5) Decide to love people, and like them.

I'd like to close with some quotes from Mother Teresa
"I am a little pencil in the hand of a writing God who is sending a love letter to the world."
"Kind words are short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless."
"Let no one ever come to you without leaving happier."

-Michael

Sunday, September 16, 2012

Evangelsim Notes

I've been doing a little reading on evangelism lately in preparation for a few weeks of focused Gospel sharing in the dorms, and I wanted a place to keep track of some articles, so why not resurrect this great blog that I post in all the time?

Great, so here we go.


The first article I read is called "Initiative Evangelism in a Culture that Longs for Community" and can be found here: http://www.centerfieldproductions.com/post/community_28/

It's a CRU website, so right off the bat it mentions this definition of successful witnessing: "Taking the initiative in the power of the Holy Spirit to share Christ, and trusting God for the results."  It's one of the best definitions of successful witnessing I've seen, and it's both freeing and challenging at the same time.  Always a good reminder.

The strategy presented is called Community 2:8 and is based off of 1 Thessalonians 2:8, which says, "We loved you so much that we were delighted to share with you not only the gospel of God but our lives as well, because you had become so dear to us." I like the way this verse emphasizes relationships without sacrificing the importance of initiative evangelism. I want to be deliberate to share the Gospel in the context of relationships and be delighted to do so.

I don't think this type of relational evangelism can or should take the place of more traditional "ministry mode" evangelism, but it's an important area that I need/want to be engaging in throughout the year.

I won't repeat most of what is in the article, but the basic steps are to make a list of people you want to witness to, and then

1) Pray
2) Share your faith
3) Introduce them to friends
4) Invite them to stuff

The article provides good explanations for each step.  It's nothing new or clever, but I appreciated the reminder. Hopefully by putting it here I won't forget it immediately like I have been everything else lately.


The next thing I want to remember has more to do with initiative  evangelism.  It's a video of John Piper discussing his fears and how he thinks we should overcome them.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XCqQKrw-nrg

"Life is very short, and the approval of the creator of the universe is infinitely more valuable than the approval of any sophisticated person."

Do we believe in heaven? Do we believe that Christ is supremely valuable? Do I believe these things? Even when I feel the Holy Spirit urging me to start a spiritual conversation with someone I've never met?


Ok, one last article that I read but don't have time to write much about:
http://crupressgreen.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/In_Desperate_Need_Of_Courage.pdf
It's a great article by Rick James, one of my favorite writers/speakers.  It talks about how courage has been neglected in modern Christianity, but it's emphasized in the Bible and is necessary in following Christ.

Winston Churchill once said that "Without courage, all virtue is fragile: admired, sought after, professed, but held cheaply and surrendered without a fight." C.S. Lewis adds, "Courage is not simply one of the virtues, but the form of every virtue at the testing point."

"It takes courage to hear the truth, it takes courage to live out the truth, and it also takes courage to proclaim the truth (the gospel)."

Paul says he "dared to tell them the Gospel" in 1 Thes. 2:2.

"I think when we encounter fear, an inability to communicate, or ignorance of what to say, we assume that there's something wrong with us, and that evangelism couldn't possibly be as difficult, as awkward, and as terrifying for others as we experience it to be. Actually, I think this is the norm. I think it's always been the norm. I don't think that people have ever just shared the Gospel--I think they've always "dared" to share the Gospel."

So much good stuff, go read the article. I need to be courageous, no excuses.

-Michael

Thursday, February 9, 2012

Credit Card Application Denied




It may be difficult to tell what the above picture is, but what you're looking at is the rejection letter I just received from Chase.  Apparently the fact that I have zero credit history prevented me from getting a credit card:)

Oh well, I think I'll have to start with a student credit card to build up some credit, which is fine by me.  I had anticipated this being one of my easier goals to meet, so I can't stop now!

Hopefully my next post on this matter will be a picture of my new student credit card!

Book #3 Completed! (The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time)



After experiencing life through the eyes of a teenager with mental instability in the last book I read, it's only natural that I moved on to reading a narrative from the life of an autistic boy.  While this book is much shorter, it has much in common with my last book.  Neither attempts to tell an epic tale of heroic acts, but rather both illustrate the unique way in which certain types of individuals interact with the world.  Both walk the reader through a series of events that while unusual, are most likely not unrealistic.

In some ways this book reminded me of Stranger Than Fiction, one of my favorite movies.  I found it fascinating to climb inside the brain of someone who experiences life in such a unique way.  Both were bittersweet and had moments of humor mixed with grief. This book ultimately ended in a way that was satisfying; not happily ever after, but also not with sadness.

This isn't the best book I've ever read, but it's definitely a good one.  It turned out to be a quick read once I got into it.  While I found myself at the end still expecting more to happen, I realize looking back that nothing more had to.  It was simply the story of a few weeks in the life of an autistic boy who struggled to deal with the drama of a broken family and the events of a world outside of his control.